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I am a Pakistani and I condemn violence
January 13th, 2011 | 9 Comments
By Tahmena Bokhari
Like many others, I sat in shock as I read the news of the Governor of Punjab, Salmaan Taseer, being murdered for supporting the revision of the blasphemy laws. I am a staunch advocate for doing away with these unjust laws and I am in favour of a progressive, liberal and tolerant Pakistan. As I saw the various news reports by so-called leading spokespersons, the two main analyses that seemed to have surfaced were either that religious extremism was the main culprit and that the ‘war on terror’ must be fought even more ruthlessly, or that religion, particularly Islam, had nothing to do with the murder as, ultimately, the US is to blame. I felt even worse when I saw that the killer was being glorified for murdering one of the few progressive and outspoken leaders in the country.
I believe it is important that the world see that Pakistanis condemn this killing. It is also important that young Pakistanis, politically disengaged Pakistanis and impoverished and disenfranchised Pakistanis see senior and prominent Pakistanis condemning this violence.
My message is simple: I am a Pakistani and I condemn violence. I condemn the murder of Governor Taseer. I urge all Pakistanis everywhere to do the same. We must stand up and speak out each and every time there is violence and murder. You cannot speak out against certain violence and stay quiet about others. No matter what your political, religious or national affiliations and no matter which way you look at it, murder is wrong and must be undeniably declared as wrong. Let us make it clear to the world once and for all that Pakistanis everywhere condemn violence no matter what justification is given and no matter who the victims are.
Pakistan is certainly in need of a new PR strategy but, strangely, not everyone seems to be aware of this and not everyone seems to be in favour of this. Those of us who sit outside the country face, first hand, the response of the international community all around us. It is absolutely imperative that Pakistanis speak up and demonstrate our humanity. It is imperative that Muslims, who belong to a religion of peace, are seen in public speaking out against the misuse and misrepresentation of Islamic teachings. Where is the peace? Where are the people who keep the peace? Where are the people standing up for peace? We need to make ourselves visible.
On the other hand, if the only response from Pakistanis during an emotional time like this is silence, blaming the victim or a complicated explanation of how the west is ultimately responsible for the murder, then Pakistan has lost the hearts of people around the world and has just given further ammunition to the US-led war on terror. Then, to feed into this hype, if Pakistani officials respond with increased support to this war with more drone attacks, the crisis becomes (and has become) a cyclical problem where one form of extremism feeds another. For the majority of the sons and daughters of partition, it is heart-wrenching to see the country being used and abused in this manner.
This murder is a serious blow to anyone working for justice and liberal progress in Pakistan. It is a message to all others working for positive change to shut up or be blown up. The murder is also a sign that the war on terror is a failed attempt. In a country like Pakistan, the solution is not to bomb the place with hopes to kill extremist ideology, the solution is not as simple as implementing secularism with hopes of ridding the country of religion, the solution is not to pretend that there is no problem of growing Islamic extremism and the solution is not to say that Islam has nothing to do with these problems. Instead, the solution has to be multifaceted, one that is based on an honest understanding of the various agendas at play where all the stakeholders are included.
Having worked with the poor and victims of disasters in Pakistan as a social worker, I can tell you that faith, spirituality and religion are huge parts of life. Faith is survival for the people at the very bottom of the totem pole, which in Pakistan’s case is unfortunately the bulk of 180 million people. This is consistent with trends that indicate that the religiosity factor is the highest among the most impoverished parts of the world. Many humanitarian efforts in various parts of the world incorporate forms of prayer and other forms of devotion to a divine being. When there is no other sign of hope for people in this world, people often turn to mystical or holy powers for some source of hope to strengthen the self and to make it through the day. Given these conditions, the sad reality sinks in that Jinnah’s secular vision, which professed no business in the religious beliefs of its citizens, is truly a mirage of the past. Instead, a Pakistan full of religious intolerance does appear to be the present. Is there a way to use the religiosity factor to support a movement towards a future of justice rather than to support this ghettoised murderous culture being mislabelled as a form of worship that is rapidly cropping up as Pakistanis go down the depths of despair? That is the question we must ask.
If you are Pakistani, I urge you to speak out loud and clear against violence, hatred and murder, and to organise your efforts. If you are a Muslim and believe yours is truly a religion of peace, I urge you to reclaim your religion and demonstrate that peace. If you are from the west, I urge you to re-examine the real (yet not so visible) war on terror objectives and outcomes and use your power as a citizen, given your constitutions, to influence your governments to develop a new strategy. I urge the people of the world to recognise that investing in Pakistan and supporting the Pakistani people is in the best interest of all of us. If not, then we can only join the millions of survivors of poverty, floods and earthquakes to say that only the power of God can help Pakistan now. I leave you with what a dear friend of mine often says in response, “God, Jesus, Mary, the Holy Spirit, Buddha, Allah, Lord Ganesh, Guru Nanak, all gurus, and all forms of supreme being(s) (and before I get criticised here, these are in no particular order and this is not a comprehensive list) all combined may not be able to help Pakistan. It is up to us human beings to clean up the worldly mess that we have made.”
The writer is a professor, social worker, justice advocate and was crowned Mrs Pakistan World 2010 last January, and recently became the first Pakistani woman to ever hold an international pageant title by winning Mrs United Nations 2010

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I am a Pakistani Indian, and one of those who were, in 1947, part of the largest ever migration of humanity in history, and I too condemn the murder of Salmaan Taseer, and the glorification of his murderer Qadri.
It should be abundantly clear that Islam is being interpreted in two different and opposing ways. The Mullahs who train persons like Qadri interpret Islam in one way, and those who give religious education to people like the contributors to PTH in the other way. The first need is to set up a religious authority (somewhat like The Pope) acceptable to all Muslims around the world who will dictate the correct interpretation. After all, if there is only one Qur’an, the teachings can not be interpreted in more than one way. As long as this is not achieved the present turmoil will continue.
The other most important aspect of the problem is that such ‘Qadris’ are religiously brainwashed, indoctrinated, trained and utilized for strategic purposes by official Pakistani agencies in Afghanistan, Kashmir and India. Those who were sent to Mumbai for 26/11 were even better ‘Qadris’, and the Taliban are no different. It is too much to expect such Qadris not to turn their guns on others inside Pakistan who appear to their brainwashed intellects as enemies of Islam (Kafirs).
Looking both ways can be dangerous!
To all the people who desire a better country for the future generation:
We have done enough venting with the snide comment and meaningless remarks. It is time now to change the tone, roll up the sleeves, and seriously come together to make some change.
In the absence of a leader, each one of can start the change by changing ourselves. Let each on pick one thing to change in our own selves that will show that we care for the country and for the community. The extreme mindset can only be changed through love. Lets us show the fundamentalists that there is goodness in being kind towards the fellow human beings.
Let us do to others what we would like to be done to us. Let us please stop using words that hurt. Let us start taking actions that help. Let us start by saying we are sorry if our words or actions have hurt anyone.
I for one am tired of feeling bad, sad, and mad. I will let go my anger and draw from the positive energy of faith and hope. Let us be guided by our own humanity to lead us back from despondency. Allah is with those who have faith in Him and are steadfast. His help is eminent, insh’Allah!
My Name is Khan and we Pakistanis support violence only in the name of Islam,otherwise we are a peaceful nation.Very clichéd!
This is one of my favorite articles. I agree with the message 100% and I would like to say that I too am inspired to declare, “I too am Pakistani and I Condemn Violence!”
We must stand up and make this statement.
We must believe in this statement.
We must rid ourselves of hate and also a lazy attitute that allows extremism to win.
We must not stop believing in the power we have as individuals to create big change.
I love what the author states in the later part of her article about a possible way to reexamine the problem. We can all play a part no matter where we are, we can ‘be the change we want to see’ as Gandhi stated. We should also be honest about the problem itself putting our emotions and agendas aside. We must acknowledge that surface level answers have not been working. I am no fan of religion, any religion, but I agree with the author that because there are so many millions of Muslims in the country, we can not take the religion or Islam factor out. We must work with the people we have and their beliefs as they are now. At the same time, the author says we have to have public campaigns to educate those who are silent and undecided on the issues so they will be convinced to work for justice. When we stay silent, the extremists have no problem infiltrating the millions of uneducated poor and often young tender minds.
I would suggest to get some T-shirts printed with this message — “I am a Pakistani and I condemn violence” — and start wearing it to everywhere as much as possible. You can sell them over PTH website. Also, tell others where to buy one or print the address on the T-shirt itself.
Good luck.
@Sid – Nice comments. I think from what I heard Ms Bokhari is actually working on that to spread this phrase as much as possible. Please do keep posted on her FB page at http://www.facebook.com/TahmenaBokhari
You can also keep posted there for her articles, news, events and so on.
More to come soon.
I am a big fan of Ms Bokhari. I love her articles and all she has done to make the world a better place. In her short time, she has accomplished so much and it makes me very proud that she is a Pakistani Muslim woman who is so widely respected and so admirable as a human being. I feel we have such few strong dynamic diverse role models as Pakistanis, especially Pakistani female role models. We need more and more role models of all kinds as Pakistani to promote our diversity.
Thank you to the author for being brave enough to speak out when even our leaders are too afraid. I also declare like her that I too am Pakistani and I too condemn violence.